is that a compliment?

I hate it when men, while hitting on me, tell me that I'm beautiful, and then tell me that they don't like skinny women. It's so bizarre! First of all, calling me fat isn't going to get you a date. Second of all, explaining that you like a woman with a little sum'in' sum'in - they almost always follow up with descriptions of how and why - isn't going to get you a date. Third of all... you're not going to get a date.